I became inspired to write this post based on a new-ish prompt challenge hosted by a blogger acquaintance and fellow erotica blogger, Brigit Delaney, which challenges us to explore new types of content to write about. Which is good for me, as I was fresh out of ideas lately. The challenge this week is to write something about our most/least favorite sexual positions. I thought I would take this a step further to talk about the positions that work well for Primals in the process.
For a few years after my enlistment ended, I felt like I had some understanding of life and what it was supposed to be, but much of it was still a great mystery to me, and no matter where I looked, or who I talked to, there was always something missing or a there would be a huge hole in their logic, or my logic.
This one’s odd, I know. But the most surprising thing I discovered recently about the plans to raid Area 51 is how many people want to have sex with an alien. Your challenge is to write what happens when your character gets that chance. It doesn’t have to be a little grey man. It could be super-intelligent, psychic, a space goddess, or even a monster. This may be the toughest challenge yet.
There’s something so thrilling about being naughty outside the safety and privacy of your own four walls. But you should always be mindful of the people around you, too. What’s a good way to enjoy yourself discretely while outdoors? Do you pleasure yourself, or does someone do the pleasuring for you? Do you struggle to maintain a straight face?
I rarely use any type of sex toys. It’s not because I’m ashamed of pleasure and sex, I think it’s because I’ve never found the right one for me. I see all these different types of toys and I’m a bit lost. The ones I’ve tried in the past were always just the same, vibrators that shake so bad, you feel like it’s going to dig a second hole in your vagina.
A couple of weeks ago, I was having some thoughts about expanding my personal experiences with sex toys. As part of my brainstorm for an article that breaks down the stigma of sex toys for men and penis-owners. Since I had an interest in finding out first-hand, I seized the opportunity by trying out the Vibrating Prostate Massager by PALOQUETH. I’ll be honest, I was extremely nervous to try this out and went so far as to ask my wife to be there for my first time. But first, let’s look at the product.
Many enjoy the thrill of having their partner’s eye on them in the most intimate of times. Sometimes they watch while you pleasure someone else, and sometimes it’s just when you pleasure yourself. What is the most erotic moment your character experienced while their partner had their eyes only on them?
I always wondered if there would ever be a time when I would want to write this. A couple reasons for this included: the way I viewed masturbation was, as a male who found pleasure only through his penis, that a solo handjob was going to be about as good as it gets because anything more than that was just the same thing, but with extra steps and a higher cost. Secondly, I didn’t think there was anything significant to say about it, or at least nothing that we don’t already know about male masturbation. I felt guilty because so many great bloggers and educators are out there right now trying to start a conversation on female pleasure, orgasm, and understanding how the vulva and clitoris work. And you should definitely be listening to them because they’re out there giving away free information on how to be a better lover, so why not take it?