Those of you who know me and know this blog are already aware that I practice Primal play, a form of BDSM that pulls away the mask of societal norms to allow our most basic selves out to play. A lot of activities fall under the range of Primal Play, including these two kinks.
The bodies of humans are beautiful creations! I’ve come to truly appreciate just how lovely every body type, every shape, every curve, every mark, and all combinations in between can be. But I also love color, expression, and imagination. I find enjoyment in seeing sexuality turned into an artful expression that makes every detail into a beautiful element to be appreciated. Thinking about it, several great examples come to mind. Some time ago, there was a fantastic artist on Twitter by the name of Tom Starling. It wasn’t tasteful nudes he wanted to capture, but raw sexuality that set your mind aflame.
Erotic Hypnosis is already an incredibly popular sub-genre of both written erotica, and porn, which entails one character or actor being hypnotized by another for the purposes of turning them into an obedient sexual partner. In recent years, it’s been gradually introduced into the BDSM community as a new extension of D/s practices. For hypnosubs(if I can call them that) it creates an entirely new opportunity to show vulnerability to their dommes by surrendering control of their mind itself. What follows can vary anywhere from roleplay in the form of guided mind journeys, to full-on mentally-induced orgasms. Others have used the practice to also condition their partners to overcome certain fears or mindsets when it comes to sex.
While I was working as a ghost writer, I had to write about subjects I’d never written before, so I had to spend a couple hours doing research on a subject, learning why some people were turned on by this particular kink, and how they got into it. They say you should write what you know, but that doesn’t mean your knowledge should be limited to just what you know right now.
When I was working as a ghost writer, writing erotica eBooks on various topics and genres, the first thing I would do is research each of these kinks, and learn why people ‘get into it’. I can tell you right now, most guys are into some pretty crazy stuff(but don’t think women are into any less crazy stuff! I know many of you ladies fantasize about tentacle sex and getting gang-banged).
By today’s standards, many of the things we’re attracted to are liberally accepted, and sexual freedom is reigning. Though, a nice thought, this is far from the truth. The reality is many of us are still quite closed off about what gets us sexually aroused. Most of us are afraid the general public will find our interests rather perverted, overly strange, or just politically incorrect. This can make our desires difficult to communicate to lovers, or even partners.